Why?
Why do people have to make their lives so hard for themselves? It shouldn't be like this. I just don't get it.
If you aren't happy with what you've got, fix it. If you can't fix it, then keep it to your goddamn self. Here's the deal and the truth about secrets as explained by Erin Morgenstern in her Fantastically amazing book The Night Circus All credits and legal props to go to Erin. None of the information is mine.
"Secrets have power, " Widget begins. "And that power diminishes when they are share, so they are best kept and kept well. Sharing secrets, real secrets, important ones, with even one other person, will change them. Writing them down is worse, because who can tell how many eyes might see them inscribed on paper, no matter how careful you might be with it. So it's really best to keep your secrets when you have them, for their own good, as well as yours.
"This is, in part, why there is less magic in the world today. magic is secret and secrets are magic, after all, and years upon years of teaching and sharing magic and worse. Writing it down in fancy books that get all dusty with age has lessened it, removed its power bit by bit. It was inevitable, perhaps but not unavoidable. Everyone makes mistakes."
I am obsessed with this book and the story it tells. I say that it tells the story and not the author because I feel like this is the kind of story that comes across different to so many people. But that's a story for another day. For today, it's just the truth. If you cannot contain yourself or the secrets you hold, then don't find yourself in the position to keep secrets. I have definitely been in the position to hold my secrets ones given to me or ones of my own, and found myself inadequate. I was always inadequate and the truth is that once you share that secret, it is NO LONGER a secret. I have learned the hard way in years past, that this is not the best practice.
I now have a secret that I haven't shared with anyone, and I think that is the best practice. Every single time I've ever shared a love, or a possibility with anyone, even my best friend, bad things tend to happen.
Just take my advice, and if you have a secret, you should keep it.
I'm hoping for the best outcome.
Lots of Love,
Kristi
Why do people have to make their lives so hard for themselves? It shouldn't be like this. I just don't get it.
If you aren't happy with what you've got, fix it. If you can't fix it, then keep it to your goddamn self. Here's the deal and the truth about secrets as explained by Erin Morgenstern in her Fantastically amazing book The Night Circus All credits and legal props to go to Erin. None of the information is mine.
"Secrets have power, " Widget begins. "And that power diminishes when they are share, so they are best kept and kept well. Sharing secrets, real secrets, important ones, with even one other person, will change them. Writing them down is worse, because who can tell how many eyes might see them inscribed on paper, no matter how careful you might be with it. So it's really best to keep your secrets when you have them, for their own good, as well as yours.
"This is, in part, why there is less magic in the world today. magic is secret and secrets are magic, after all, and years upon years of teaching and sharing magic and worse. Writing it down in fancy books that get all dusty with age has lessened it, removed its power bit by bit. It was inevitable, perhaps but not unavoidable. Everyone makes mistakes."
I am obsessed with this book and the story it tells. I say that it tells the story and not the author because I feel like this is the kind of story that comes across different to so many people. But that's a story for another day. For today, it's just the truth. If you cannot contain yourself or the secrets you hold, then don't find yourself in the position to keep secrets. I have definitely been in the position to hold my secrets ones given to me or ones of my own, and found myself inadequate. I was always inadequate and the truth is that once you share that secret, it is NO LONGER a secret. I have learned the hard way in years past, that this is not the best practice.
I now have a secret that I haven't shared with anyone, and I think that is the best practice. Every single time I've ever shared a love, or a possibility with anyone, even my best friend, bad things tend to happen.
Just take my advice, and if you have a secret, you should keep it.
I'm hoping for the best outcome.
Lots of Love,
Kristi
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